I concur on the What To Expect books, they've been really good. My major beef with the health visitos has been the conflicting information that they give us, they've only really confused, rather than informed, unfortunately. There was a whole thing about the vitamin k suppliment that still makes me bristle and they filled in our red book incorrectly throughout and refused to change it (the carbon paper was mis-alighned so we've got yes's where we should have no's throughout, surely a pretty important thing on a permanent record?). However, I live in hope that the health visitors will prove me wrong!!