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Baboonery


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19-12-2007 02:37 PM

Jane wrote:
This whole exchange is quite unpleasant. I feel sorry for people who don't like children - fine to decide you don't want any or of course if you can't - but not liking them is must give you an ulcer - all that bile. Ultimately we are put on this earth to procreate-it's a fact of nature. I wasn't crazy about kids in general until I had some of my own and your whole world changes for the better. Perhaps you'll find that out for yourself one day Baboonery, but until then revel in the fact that you can spend more of your own hard-earned dosh on yourself.
My Dad was a Tory and I well remember his Conservative club banning females from the bar except on Sunday evenings (he changed all that when he became chair).
Life for women in this country has changed enormously since my parents' generation. My mother was not allowed to continue being a nurse after she married - many of my former colleagues in the City (in the 90s) believed that women should stay at home once they had children and made sexist comments when they returned. Thank heavens we now have legislation to better protect the rights of women and greater equality in the workplace - but there is still a long way to go in terms of equal salaries! We can thank the EU for most of this - ooh good I can hear another diatribe on the way!
Also, I could retire next year at 60 but will slog on until 65 because I have a child who will not leave school until I reach that age. A lot of childless people are in a position to retire early because they have not had all the extra expense of raising a family.
There are pluses and minuses but a little tolerance and humour wouldn't go amiss.


The portion that I'm not giving to you so you can spend it on yourself, you mean.

And please don't tell me you feel sorry for me. I appreciate you don't mean it as arrogantly as a previous poster did, but I really don't want you to feel sorry for me just because I 'don't like children'. I could turn it round and feel sorry for you that a biological happenstance has changed you into some illogical

By the way, I've never said I don't like children. I don't like children making nuisance in public, or parents who blithely allow this to happen, don't think it's a problem, think it's an inevitable consequence of being a child and should just be ignored for some reason, or fob it off with a glib "but having children is the most wonderful experience ever, man, and I feel sorry for you if you don't". I don't want any of my own, but that may change one day, and anyway, it doesn't mean I dislike them. My friends who have children think I'm great with them. I don't like the cult of family friendliness when it impinges on other people, I don't like distortions to the tax system to favour one particular lifestyle choice over another, but I've never said I don't like children. So please stop saying I have, because it's a lie.

I've plenty of tolerance and humour. I'm not getting much, though.

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Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 15-12-2007, 05:18 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - roz - 15-12-2007, 09:05 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - shzl400 - 15-12-2007, 10:13 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 16-12-2007, 12:39 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 17-12-2007, 11:46 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 16-12-2007, 01:18 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - shzl400 - 16-12-2007, 02:25 PM
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RE: Statistical stupidity - Dotcom - 17-12-2007, 02:21 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 17-12-2007, 02:50 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Dotcom - 17-12-2007, 03:25 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 17-12-2007, 08:41 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 17-12-2007, 10:36 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 18-12-2007, 10:59 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 17-12-2007, 11:05 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 18-12-2007, 12:14 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - roz - 18-12-2007, 10:54 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - baggydave - 19-12-2007, 12:06 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 19-12-2007, 11:32 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 19-12-2007, 12:30 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 19-12-2007, 12:42 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - shzl400 - 19-12-2007, 10:31 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 19-12-2007, 11:26 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - shzl400 - 19-12-2007, 12:49 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Jane - 19-12-2007, 02:10 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 19-12-2007 02:37 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 19-12-2007, 02:38 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 19-12-2007, 02:44 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 19-12-2007, 02:49 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Elizabeth25 - 19-12-2007, 03:54 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 19-12-2007, 03:59 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Elizabeth25 - 19-12-2007, 04:05 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Elizabeth25 - 19-12-2007, 03:58 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 19-12-2007, 04:24 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Elizabeth25 - 19-12-2007, 04:03 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 19-12-2007, 04:06 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Elizabeth25 - 19-12-2007, 04:24 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 19-12-2007, 04:15 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 19-12-2007, 04:33 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Jane - 19-12-2007, 07:09 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - hilltopgeneral - 19-12-2007, 07:39 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - roz - 19-12-2007, 07:51 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - nevermodern - 20-12-2007, 01:04 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Jane - 20-12-2007, 11:15 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - baggydave - 24-12-2007, 01:36 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Baboonery - 24-12-2007, 01:30 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - shzl400 - 24-12-2007, 01:54 PM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 25-12-2007, 02:23 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 25-12-2007, 10:52 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - roz - 25-12-2007, 11:24 AM
RE: Statistical stupidity - Ooperlooper - 26-12-2007, 11:10 PM