I didnt find your comments tasteless GN, not at all in fact.
Im sure it was a private affair, but I know exactly what you mean.
Having used Lewisham a few times for surgery now, as well as private, I would have to say there is not much in it other than the surroundings.
Its painful being there, the food is "ok" and regardless of * rating, all you wanna do is go home lol
Fair play for speaking your mind, im sure he would not take offence.
Get well soon.
Roz, cheers for the comments too, that would make sense indeed.