Hi
Sorry for coming so late to this discussion. I don't know how much I can add, but this is the NCT position on coping with swine flu during pregnancy (and vaccinations):

http://www.nct.org.uk/info-centre/information/view-117

It does seem that from your experiences the GPs and midwives are not informed enough to be able to give the kind of detailed information that an expectant parent needs when making this decision.

It sounds like you've uncovered some pretty good facts here. If I can find anything else out will let you know, and if anyone else asks me about it I will direct them to this discussion!

Jane
(Forest Hill NCT Rep)