From what I hear from friends there is at least one cafe in FH that can be quite unwelcoming and unhelpful to families with small children. As a result of this and the quite off-putting sign regarding children that I once saw on its door I have avoided it, whether with my (well behaved) children or without.

Surely all those that don't want to be bothered by the next generation could go there? Some parents can be selfish with their giant buggies and willful toddlers, but plenty of people of selfish - it is not exclusive to parents. Live and let live!