When "communities" feel like safe and welcoming spaces to all then maybe you will find more tolerance, but seriously? You don't understand why everyone isn't delighted by the idea of lots of noise, chaos, random strangers etc. outside their home? Compulsory jollification is not everyone's thing. I view my home as my safe place in the jungle that is London. Events outside my home threaten that for me and I too am dreading Saturday and making plans to be away from home during the event as long as possible!