I agree, I think this matter is disintegrating further into dangerous territory and further or even past discussion of this nature of someones personal and family life involving children is abhorrent. I agree that boundaries should be drawn and these posts amended to exclude these matters. No one knows or should know about peoples past relationships and decisions made or not made in respect of financial arrangements. Everyone is entitled to a private life. I dont think any of us are immune to life events, good or bad.
This current stoking of bad feeling is most certainly not incidental as it is claimed to be.