Only thing these people understand is reciprocal. Not sure about the BBQ ( very chavy nowadays ) but as far as noise is concerned the following day put your music on very loud just as they are trying to get some sleep.
I know we have to give and take to live together in a big city but music does not have to be so loud as next door cannot hear TV with windows closed. This is totally unacceptable.
Firework display in back garden of Dacres Road about 10.30 pm couple of night ago. Why that late and I thought fireworks only allowed on , or close , to Guy Fawkes night.